With the world getting increasingly smaller as technology lets us reach almost everywhere on earth, it is getting easier and easier for people across oceans and the world to meet, chat and even start a relationship together.
People don’t choose who they fall in love with, the time they fall in love or even the place. It happens when you least expect it and can be in the most unexpected places.
Long distant relationships are not for the non committed people, they take a lot more time, a lot more patience, a lot more communication and a lot more trust. In an LDR you get to find out more about the person, as a person, instead of just relying on chemical or physical attraction (but that does happen when they get together) ;).
You get to know the person for who they are. You get to know them on a much deeper level than if you just met them in a bar and take them home one saturday night. You learn to listen, to open up, to communicate with each other which is the foundation to any relationship. You have already fallen in love with the person before you’ve even met, and if you aren’t a shallow person or revolve a whole relationship on physical features, no matter what happens when you meet you will just fall deeper in love. You will feel that physical connection on top of the love. You will see them as they are in the inside and as what you fell in love with….. Beautifully perfect.
As time goes on and you stay in the relationship, you meet each other more and more, talk to each other daily, and miss them like nothing else. But. You wouldn’t change it for the world, as you have found the one you want to spend your future with, and when you are finally together, it will be everything you’ve been waiting for for years.
Love is not bounded by distance.
It is a real relationship no matter where you both are.